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 Obecn\u011b se m\u00e1 za to, \u017ee jak se mu\u017e chov\u00e1 ke sv\u00e9 matce, tak se bude chovat i k partnerce . My maminky m\u00e1me n\u011bkdy tendence d\u011btem slou\u017eit, ani\u017e si to uv\u011bdomujeme. Zejm\u00e9na syn\u016fm, proto\u017ee hol\u010di\u010dky b\u00fdvaj\u00ed samostatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a n\u011bjak automaticky se p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1, \u017ee budou mamince pom\u00e1hat s tzv. \u017eensk\u00fdmi pracemi. Nevychovat ze syna mam\u00e1nka by m\u011blo b\u00fdt asi hlavn\u00edm v\u00fdchovn\u00fdm c\u00edlem. Aby byl samostatn\u00fd a \u017eivotaschopn\u00fd i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee by se ocitl s\u00e1m. Ur\u010dit\u011b je pot\u0159eba vn\u00e9st do jeho \u017eivota n\u011bjakou z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e, ale v rozumn\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e, \u00fam\u011brn\u011b v\u011bku a povaze. Tat\u00ednkov\u00e9 maj\u00ed n\u011bkdy tendenci tuto z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e p\u0159ehnat, \u010d\u00edm\u017e zp\u016fsob\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e trauma, ne\u017e zocelen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 zam\u00fd\u0161leli.
 
 Tak\u00e9 ni\u010demu neprosp\u011bj\u00ed v\u011bty typu „nesahej na to, zni\u010d\u00ed\u0161 to, ud\u011bl\u00e1m to rad\u0161i s\u00e1m, ty bys to zase zkazil“ apod. \u010clov\u011bk si odnese p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee je neschopn\u00fd a boj\u00ed se pak v pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b n\u011bco s\u00e1m ud\u011blat. Ov\u0161em ruku na srdce… mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s rodi\u010d\u016f n\u011bkdy podobnou v\u011btu sm\u011brem k potomk\u016fm pronesl. Ani rodi\u010de nejsou bezchybn\u00e9 stroje, tak\u017ee nad\u011blaj\u00ed s dobr\u00fdm \u00famyslem spoustu chyb. Povede-li se n\u00e1m vychovat citliv\u00e9ho, ale p\u0159itom pevn\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt partnerce oporou a un\u00e9st zodpov\u011bdnost, m\u016f\u017eeme si jako rodi\u010de s uleh\u010den\u00edm oddechnout. \u00dakol spln\u011bn na jedni\u010dku.
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